Shortly before the Israel-Hamas fighting began in Gaza earlier this month, two separate killings ratcheted up tensions.
First, three Israeli teenagers were killed, allegedly by Hamas in the West Bank. Israel has arrested many Palestinians, but says it is still searching for the main suspects.
Shortly after the Israeli deaths, young Israelis abducted and killed a 16-year-old Palestinian, Mohammed Abu Khdeir.
In a courtroom last week, an Israeli prosecutor charged three Jewish Israelis with the murder of Abu Khdeir, who was bludgeoned with a wrench and burned alive.
Israel also announced it would officially recognize the teen as a victim of terrorism. By law, that means his family will be eligible for Israeli government compensation.
"Crimes committed by Jewish, Christians, Muslims, whatever it is, at the end of the day, they are crimes," said Jonathan Mosery of the Israeli Ministry of Defense. "So it's just important to recognize that we don't discriminate and that everybody is equal before the law."
There are still apparent inconsistencies. For example, Israel has ordered the demolition of the homes of Palestinian suspects, a punishment it has carried out many times over the years. But Israel has not done so with the Israelis accused of murdering Abu Khdeir. The compensation law, though, has changed. For decades, the law only applied to people attacked by armies or organizations hostile to Israel. Then, in 2005, an Israeli killed four Arab citizens of Israel. It wasn't the first time Arabs died in an Israeli attack. But the law was broadened to compensate them, and it also now makes Mohammed Abu Khdeir's family eligible.
This doesn't sit well with Meir Indor of Almagor, a group that supports Jewish Israelis who have been victims of terrorism. If the state grants compensation, it implies Israel as a whole is to blame, he said.
"If I would pay the family, I would admit that we are responsible for what they did," he said. "I don't have any responsibility for what the three murderers did." He said Israelis in his group have threatened to boycott any memorial services for victims of terror if Abu Khdeir's name is included on the list of those honored.
Abu Khdeir "was not attacked by the enemy of the state," Indor said. He "was attacked by brutal, criminal people. Can that person be a part of the memorial of the country? No. Because a memorial day is for those who have been killed by the enemy of the state." Another victims' organization does not make that distinction. The Bereaved Families Forum is a group of Israelis and Palestinians whose relatives were killed in the Arab-Israeli conflict.
Every night since the Israeli offensive on Gaza began, Israelis in the group have set up a circle of chairs and a microphone to talk in downtown Tel Aviv.
Dana Wegman, whose father was killed in a Palestinian bombing, agrees with the Israeli government's labeling of Abu Khdeir's killing as terrorism. But she holds little hope that Israeli recognition will encourage empathy between victims on both sides.
"Right now everything is so on fire that we need a lot more than that," she said.
At the gathering in Tel Aviv, some Israeli passersby screamed at the group. One shouted that the group was talking peace when Israelis are being killed by "them."
While some see Israelis and Palestinians as victims of the same conflict, for others, it's still a matter of us versus them.
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