Skip to main content

Reporter’s Notebook: Tolerance Or Tantrums? It’s Not Just Politicians Who Need To Choose

Trump supporter Kevin Coffey and protester Cathy Blane, both of Reno, chat ou...

Photo by Ben Adler / Capital Public Radio

Above: Trump supporter Kevin Coffey and protester Cathy Blane, both of Reno, chat outside the Reno Convention Center on Wednesday, August 23, 2017, while the president addressed the American Legion National Convention inside.

KPBS Midday Edition Segments podcast branding

As a veteran California Capitol reporter leaves the beat, he digs back into his reporter’s notebook to reflect on our growing polarization. His takeaway? Just because you disagree with someone’s political views, it doesn’t make them a bad person.

Aired: January 6, 2020 | Transcript

Editor’s note: California lawmakers reconvene Monday for their 2020 legislative session. But for the first time in nearly a decade, Capital Public Radio’s Capitol Bureau Chief Ben Adler won’t be joining them. Before he moves into a new role with the station, he digs back into his reporter’s notebook to reflect on California’s polarized political debate. This is the final piece in our California Dream collaboration series on solutions.

In the spring of 2017, Democratic Assembly Speaker Anthony Rendon shelved a single-payer health care bill.

“It cost double the state budget and didn’t have a funding source attached to it,” Rendon told CapRadio at the time. “It was a bill that was woefully incomplete.”

In reaction, the California Nurses Association posted a violent graphic to social media: a knife with the word RENDON on it, stabbing the California grizzly bear in the back.

“I think it represents very well what the speaker did,” the union’s Don Nielsen said, defending the image. “Yeah, he stabbed California residents in the back.”

Weeks later, then-Gov. Jerry Brown crossed party lines to negotiate a cap-and-trade greenhouse gas emission reduction deal with a bloc of Republicans led by Assembly Minority Leader Chad Mayes.

Mayes acknowledged the political risk to him and his GOP colleagues as he stood with Brown at a news conference.

“What they decided,” Mayes said, “was that they were gonna put the people of California ahead of their own careers.”

It was more than just a risk. Even though business and oil industry groups preferred cap-and-trade’s market-based approach over top-down state regulations, influential conservatives like Jon Fleischman forced Mayes to resign his leadership post.

“Most hard-working Republican activists expect our legislators to draw a line in the sand,” state GOP strategist Fleischman said in the days that followed that vote. “I don’t work hard to elect Republicans so they can decide that a small tax increase might be better than a big tax increase.”

Just last month, Mayes switched his voter registration from Republican to “no party preference.” He returns to the state Capitol on Monday as the Legislature’s lone independent.

These may seem like extreme examples, easy to dismiss. Or you might accuse me of false equivalency. Yet both are clear examples of the political parties moving away from the center. Away from even talking with the opposing political party, let alone compromising on the hard issues facing our state and our nation.

It’s fair to say California Democrats and Republicans were already deeply divided well before the 2016 presidential election. The state’s $40 billion budget deficit during the Great Recession stemmed in large part from Democrats and Republicans refusing to compromise. But polarization has deepened here in the Trump era, just like it has nationally.

Despite these pressures, some lawmakers still seek connections, compromise … and karaoke.

Once a year, the Legislature’s Cordial Caucus convenes at Simon’s, a legendary political watering hole not far from the state Capitol, for drinks and some below-average singing. When I stopped by in February 2017, shortly after President Trump’s inauguration, Democratic state Sen. Steven Bradford of Gardena told me it makes finding common ground a little easier.

“Events like this allow us to sit down outside of the (political) party, outside the building, outside the politics — and get to know one another,” he said.

Photo by Ben Adler / Capital Public Radio

Current and former California lawmakers gather at Simon's Bar and Café in Sacramento on Wednesday, February 1, 2017, for the annual Cordial Caucus Karaoke Night.

And former GOP Sen. Tony Strickland said politicians do know how to disagree without being disagreeable.

“If you really want civility, you need to hear what the other side’s talking about and have some respect,” he said.

“But your constituents,” I countered, “your active ones, are pressuring you to go further in one direction or the other.”

“Without question,” Strickland replied.” That’s why it’s incumbent upon leaders to lead.”

Sometimes, they do. Earlier this year, Gov. Gavin Newsom and lawmakers from both parties resolved one of the nation’s most polarizing debates ... with a compromise.

Assembly Bill 392 raised the legal standard for when police can use deadly force. Its passage came more than a year after Sacramento officers shot Stephon Clark, an unarmed black man, in his grandmother’s backyard.

After months of negotiations with civil liberties advocates, community activists and law enforcement groups, the final deal drew bipartisan support.

“They always say, if you want to go fast, go alone. But if you want to go far, go together,” the bill’s author, Democratic Assemblywoman Shirley Weber of San Diego said at the bill signing ceremony in August.

“When you have true leadership,” Republican Assemblyman and former California Highway Patrol officer Tom Lackey told me a few days earlier, “really polarized positions can come together.”

But it’s not just politicians who must choose between tolerance and tantrums. It’s the rest of us, too.

On our social media feeds, at our community events, or at our dinner chats with family and friends, it can be hard to find tolerance of the “other side.”

Even, perhaps, from ourselves.

Yet every once in a while, there’s a moment like this one — outside a Trump speech in Reno in August 2017.

As police held protesters and supporters apart, a man wearing a Make America Great Again hat stood talking with a woman holding a Black Lives Matter sign.

“We only met, what, a half-hour ago,“ said Cathy Blane, who opposes the president. “So, so far, really, we’ve talked it out. A little anger at first, a little bit, and now I kind of feel like he’s a friend.”

“Love and respect your neighbor, and understand that some people don’t agree with what you want,“ added Kevin Coffey, the Trump backer. “The use of force is not the answer.”

Photo by Andrew Nixon / Capital Public Radio

An undated file photo of Capital Public Radio’s outgoing Capitol Bureau Chief, Ben Adler, on the Assembly floor.

A few days after the Legislature adjourned for the year this past September, I spoke with a young college grad who’d just spent a year working for a Democratic senator as part of Sacramento State’s Capital Fellows program. Mina Hanin told me he started out viewing politics negatively, because of TV and social media. But he learned that negotiating a bill with opponents often makes the measure stronger.

Asked about working with Republicans, he replied: “There’s the human side of the person, there’s the person themselves, and then there’s their point of view. And productive negotiations and discussions come from the fact you’re negotiating the issue, but you’re not viewing the person negatively.”

In my 20 years as a journalist, I’ve only felt comfortable advocating for two things: Donate to your local public radio station and vote. But as I turn in my reporting gear, I think I’m ready to add one final thing to that list:

Just because you disagree with someone’s political views, it doesn’t make them a bad person.

Logo for Cal Dream project The California Dream Project is a statewide collaboration focused on issues of economic opportunity, quality-of-life, and the future of the California Dream. Partner organizations include CALmatters, Capital Public Radio, KPBS, KPCC, and KQED.

Midday Edition banner

KPBS Midday Edition is a daily radio news magazine keeping San Diego in the know on everything from politics to the arts.

Want more KPBS news?
Find us on Twitter and Facebook, or sign up for our newsletters.

To view PDF documents, Download Acrobat Reader.