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How Did Tacoma, Wash. Get To Be America's 'Gayest City'?

Tacoma, Wash. tops
Tacoma, Wash. tops

Every year, when the Advocate magazine publishes their list of the 'Gayest Cities in America' it comes with a few surprises. This year was no different.

At the top of the list this year: Tacoma, Washington.

To Tacoma resident Ellen Cohen, the superlative was unexpected.


"In all of Tacoma coming out as number one in anything would surprise me," Cohen said.

But sweet pea Flaherty, owner of King's Books in Tacoma, says he was pleasantly surprised, but that there was a certain logic to it.

"There's a lot of public support [for the LGBT community] and we've had non-discrimination laws for a long time here," Flaherty said.

"Tacoma was the right blend of the right size and had the factors we looked for in the criteria," Matthew Breen, editor of The Advocate and the man behind this year's list, told weekends on All Things Considered host Jacki Lyden.

Those factors include more serious criteria like the number of LGBT elected officials, whether a city has legal protections for people who are transgender, and bisexual resource centers. Then they add in some tongue-in-cheek factors: concerts by Glee cast members, roller derby and gay rugby teams, and 'fabulous' shopping -- measured by the number of Whole Foods, West Elm, and Pottery Barn stores.


"We start with a baseline of cities that have 150,000 people or more and we take all of our criteria," Breen says. "Then we divide by the number of people and we get a per-capita gay-ness."

Joining Tacoma on the list of America's gayest cities is Spokane, Washington. The two cities were helped by the fact that Washington state became legalized same-sex marriage in last year's election.

"We weighted marriage equality states pretty heavily this year," Breen says.

Some of the newly-minted gay cities surprised Breen. Colorado Springs, Colo., for example, is home to anti-gay Focus on the Family and also ranked 13th on their list (above San Francisco and Long Beach, Calif., both runners-up). In Salem, Ore. -- number 14 -- Breen says they were surprised by the number of LGBT-friendly churches.

Also notable are the cities not on the list. New York didn't make the cut. Neither did Palm Springs or any other city in southern California.

"We know that the metropolitan areas have a draw for a lot of LGBT people, but a lot of people stay in their home town or move to small towns or prefer a medium-sized city life" Breen says. "There are places that people would prefer to raise their families.

Breen says cities have used the list -- the Advocate has published the list for the last four years --to attract tourists, and he's heard mostly positive things from city leaders.

"The Salt Lake City mayor tweeted out that he's sorry they lost their top spot, which i thought was hilarious," says Breen. Last year's top city was bumped to number six this year.

Although the list is a bit cheeky, Breen says it's also important because it starts a dialogue about what being a gay-friendly city means.

"People start having a conversation about whether their city is LGBT-friendly," he says. "They get to look at dimensions to their city that they maybe didn't consider in the past. The conversation is what I'm after here, and I'm just finding it happen all over the place every year, so I'm really excited about that."

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