This week's Ask KPBS/Arts question comes from a co-worker, something that isn't usually allowed but I'm making an exception because it's a good one:
I bought a ticket to see a musical by myself. Is that weird? Do you have any tips on going to performances alone? Brooke R.
Short answer: no, not at all.
Long answer: It depends on how comfortable you are doing things alone. If you're someone who already goes to the movies or eats meals at restaurants by yourself, then you're perfectly equipped for a solo theater outing.
But if the thought of sitting alone in your seat, reading and re-reading your program until the lights go down makes you feel uncomfortable, you may want to ease into it.
This may sound counter-intuitive, but it's best to start out at a big venue. Shows at the Civic Theatre, La Jolla Playhouse or The Old Globe are great because there are so many people wandering around that you blend right in.
There's also lots to do before the show begins: buy something to drink, check out the merch, stand in the long bathroom line and then take your seat when you hear the curtain bell.
Repeat these steps at intermission.
Eventually you'll get comfortable enough to go to one of the popular regional theaters like Cygnet, San Diego Rep, Diversionary, Lamb's or North Coast Rep.
These kinds of theaters really do have a unique sense of community, especially if you go on opening night or at a designated day like Social Media, Under 35 or LGBTQ Night. I've gone alone to these shows and sometimes it does feel like everyone knows each other and you're just standing around feeling awkward.
Find a slow night - maybe Sunday or Thursday - and get to the smaller theater with just enough time to do what you need (park, will call line, bathroom). If you're feeling social, you can strike up a conversation with someone at intermission. Regional theater fans tend to be exceptionally friendly. Maybe next time you'll see familiar faces.
A place I don't like going alone is Moonlight Amphitheatre in Vista. With its picnic seating, that place is designed for social outings.
And unless you know someone in a youth or junior production, don't go to those alone. You'll feel weird, for sure.
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