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Local Muslim Community Discusses Life After 9/11

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Aired 9/10/09

San Diego's Muslim community continues to deal with stigma and misconceptions as a result of 9/11. We speak with a local imam and others within the Muslim community about what it means to be a Muslim in San Diego and how their community is affected by the long wars in the Middle East.

MAUREEN CAVANAUGH (Host): I'm Maureen Cavanaugh, and you're listening to These Days on KPBS. The Muslim community in San Diego is in the middle of observing the holy month of Ramadan. And Muslims in the North County have broken ground on construction of a new, five-acre community center. So, it's evident that people of the Islamic faith are a vital and growing part of the larger San Diego community. But as we approach another anniversary of the 9/11 attacks, the complexities of being an American Muslim once again come to the surface. Since the attacks in 2001, the Muslim community has been working to move beyond the stigma and misconceptions that followed. And since the U.S. military is still fighting in Muslim countries, the pressures of a complex identity persist for many American Muslims. Today, we want to talk about what it means to be a Muslim in San Diego. Do misconceptions and prejudice continue to be expressed? Or after eight years, and with a new presidential administration, have social conditions improved for San Diego's Muslim community? I'd like to welcome my guests. Ghada Osman is director of the Center for Islamic and Arabic Studies at SDSU. Welcome, Ghada.

GHADA OSMAN (Director, Center for Islamic and Arabic Studies, San Diego State University): Thank you.

CAVANAUGH: Imam Taha Hassane is imam and director of the Islamic Center of San Diego. Imam Taha, welcome.

IMAM TAHA HASSANE (Director, Islamic Center of San Diego): Thank you.

CAVANAUGH: And Anita Tallman is a volunteer at the Muslim Community Center of Greater San Diego. And good morning, Anita.

ANITA TALLMAN (Volunteer, Muslim Community Center of Greater San Diego): Good morning to you.

CAVANAUGH: And I'd like to invite our listeners to join the conversation. If you are Muslim, tell us what it's like living here. Do you feel accepted just like anybody else? If you're not Muslim, do you think you understand your Muslim neighbors? Give us a call if you have questions or comments, 1-888-895-5727, that's 1-888-895-KPBS. Well, Imam Taha, let's start, since we are in the holy month of Ramadan…

IMAM TAHA: Umm-hmm.

CAVANAUGH: …why don't we begin by discussing what Ramadan is and why the month is holy.

IMAM TAHA: Thank you. (Islamic blessing) …in the name of God, the most gracious and most merciful. First of all, I would like to thank you for giving us this chance to be here and to represent the Muslim community here in San Diego County. Yes, today actually is the 20th day of the month of Ramadan, which is in the same time the beginning of the last ten days and ten nights, which are the most sacred days of Ramadan but also the most sacred days of the year. In these days, especially the last days of Ramadan, Muslims all over the world, they increase their acts of worship. They spend more time in the mosques praying and supplicating to God, reflecting on themselves and giving more charity and so on. And Ramadan basically is the ninth month of the lunar calendar. We, as Muslims, in our acts of worship and celebrations, we go by the lunar calendar, which is 11 days shorter than the solar calendar. So the ninth month of the lunar calendar is called Ramadan. In this month of Ramadan, Muslims all over the world, those who are Muslims healthy and adult, they have to fast. Fasting means abstain from eating, drinking and having any conjugal relationship with our spouses from dawn. And here I would like to emphasize not sunrise, dawn, because I have heard a lot of people saying from sunrise to sunset. No, it's from dawn to sunset. At sunset, we have to break the fast. After breaking the fast, Muslims do observe a lot of prayers. They, most of them, they go to the mosques and pray in congregation and so on.

CAVANAUGH: And it sounds a little bit like the Christian season of Lent almost.

IMAM TAHA: Yeah. I mean, each faith traditionally have their own time season of when they increase worship and so on. And Ramadan for Muslims is very special.

CAVANAUGH: And it's not just about giving things up, it's about actually giving to the poor and being compassionate and, as you say, recognizing your connection with your God, is that correct?

IMAM TAHA: Yes. Ramadan is all about uplifting our spirituality, strengthening our connection with Almighty God. And also, it's the best time for us to remember those who are poor, needy, homeless people, so not only we should develop this relationship, spiritual relationship, with God but also we have to reach out to those needy people in our society and give to them.

CAVANAUGH: You know, Ghada, I was thinking about this and when the larger American public hears about Ramadam – Ramadan, that is, it's often in connection to whether or not fighting will decrease in the Middle East.

OSMAN: That's right.

CAVANAUGH: Does it sometimes feel that everything about Islam has become politicized?

OSMAN: I think, unfortunately, yes, and this especially the case after 9/11. But even before 9/11, this was the case. Ultimately, I think for many in American society, Islam is a religion that has been seen as a religion of 'an other.' And the focus on the American Muslim community has been relatively minor and that's why we are very grateful that you are having this show today. And so as a result, then when you're talking about a group that's 'an other' then you're only concerned about how they might affect you in that particular way, and so this is why a discussion has often been around politics rather than around the human interactions that – within the Muslim community.

CAVANAUGH: Give us a little context, if you would, Ghada. How many Muslims do you estimate live in San Diego County?

OSMAN: The estimate is that roughly 80,000 Muslims live in San Diego County.

CAVANAUGH: And is that a relatively stable figure? Or is the number growing?

OSMAN: The number is definitely growing. It's growing for several reasons. One of these is immigration, both immigration from other countries as well as migration within the United States. Also the number of converts actually post-9/11, converts to Islam, has increased, which is a remarkable fact to many people.

CAVANAUGH: Is that because people became aware of the Muslim religion even in a negative context after 9/11, and after studying it came around to wanting to be part of it?

OSMAN: Yes, 9/11 had many negative repercussions on the Muslim community but one of the other repercussions on the community was the fact that people became curious about Islam and wanted to read and learn about it more and more. And so exactly as you mention, as people read about Islam, then for some people this seemed to be a religion that fit with ideas and spiritual patterns that they had held in the past, hence the rise in conversion.

CAVANAUGH: We are talking about San Diego's Muslim community and we're also welcoming your calls. 1-888-895-5727 is the number to call. And Omar is in San Diego. And welcome, Omar. Welcome to These Days.

OMAR (Caller, San Diego): Yeah, thank you for having me. And my name's Omar and I live San Diego in two years and general for United States, I live 15 years. And we don't have any problem to live in San Diego or either United State as the Muslims. Actually since 9/11 we see sometimes difficult and some innocent people to, you know, to just desecrate for the Muslims. But the general, we don't have any problem.

CAVANAUGH: Well…

OMAR: We don't have any problem.

CAVANAUGH: Well, thank you for that, Omar. That's at least good news from you. Thank you so much for that. Ghada, I wanted to ask you, just to round out our understanding of the Muslim community in San Diego, what religious organizations and mosques are here in town for the Islamic community?

OSMAN: Well, there are around 20 mosques in the San Diego area, including the Islamic Center of San Diego on Balboa at which the Imam Taha is Imam, and also the Muslim Community Center, that you mentioned, in North County. Other than that, yeah, there are around 18 other mosques of different sizes focusing on different congregations.

CAVANAUGH: And that brings me to you, Anita, because you are a volunteer for the Muslim Community Center, which, I believe, is under construction? Is that correct?

TALLMAN: That is correct.

CAVANAUGH: And where is it being constructed?

TALLMAN: It is located in the Santa Luz community. It is adjacent – if you can kind of – geographically, where it's located is right next to Fairbanks Ranch, Rancho Santa Fe, surrounded by 56. It's just north of 56 and just west of Forest Ranch.

CAVANAUGH: And, you know, in reading about this, I saw that there was a strong reaction when a public hearing was held to discuss the building of the center but it wasn't necessarily because it was a Muslim community center. Tell me about that.

TALLMAN: Well, I think that's still up for discussion.

CAVANAUGH: Okay.

TALLMAN: The public hearing that we had was something with the city planning board and I was one of many that were there presenting and basically representing MCC and what our intentions were as far as what kind of building we're building, what the use of the building will be, etcetera. And it was definitely an amazing event in the sense that for someone who's never been part of the process, to walk into what you think is going to be a rather dry process and walk in and see it was standing room only and, yeah, I think there were definitely a lot of concerns about any time you have a building going up, that whole not in my backyard idea of, you know, what about traffic? What about noise? You know, how busy is the center going to be? How's it going to affect my children walking to school? You know, a lot of those concerns. And I think that was probably the most of what we heard, but I think there were some that, of course, had that concern of, well, there's a Muslim center being built within my residential area so what is that going to mean to me? And I think now, in the last – This was about three years ago. We haven't heard much from the community so I think we've done pretty well of being able to, you know, take care of a lot of those concerns. We've done what you do when you build a building: traffic studies, you know, the center itself, the design of it. We've put it out there. You know, the functionality of the center, we've put that out there as well. So I think we're at a point now where, at least we hope, that our neighbors are excited about having us because I know we're very excited about being in that area.

CAVANAUGH: And what exactly are you planning? What is this structure going to be for in the – What is the community center – is it going to be a multi-use facility?

TALLMAN: It is. The center's going to have an area, of course, the majority area, the biggest part of the area is going to be a prayer hall. But that will also be used for any kind of, you know, pot luck gathering at night. There will be some classrooms that will be for the school on the weekends. There's also a break room and then, of course, an office for administrative use.

CAVANAUGH: And one thing I read about it is that there are some very distinct features about the Muslim Community Center. It's welcoming non-Muslims and the participation of women. Tell us a little bit about that.

TALLMAN: Well, I'll say all around the U.S. you always have an Islamic center mosque that's opening and welcoming to non-Muslims. We want that. And I think with MCC we want to promote that more because I know in my experience, talking to non-Muslims that are curious about our religion, there was always that factor of do I just walk in? Is it okay to walk in? When do I walk in? What are good times to walk in, that sort of thing. So we definitely like to promote the fact that, yes, come. Obviously, Friday is our busiest day. That's when we have our Friday prayers so we always like to promote, yes, come on a Friday afternoon when there's a lot of people there and you can kind of see what's going on and what we do and you've got access to talking to a lot of Muslims that are there. As far as the openness to participation, equal participation between men and women, all centers try to aim for that and I think there sometimes is a little bit of hesitation of whether or not a woman would feel comfortable. And when I say participation, it's not just attending the center. Obviously, all centers welcome women and, you know, men and children, of course. But as far as actually taking a leadership position in the center and the way MCC is structured is that we have a board of directors that is nine, and to be able to run for a board, you basically need to be a member of the center for a year, so you can be a college student, you could be a man, you can be a woman, you know, whatever the case may be.

CAVANAUGH: And it's, I think, it's wise to remember that Muslim is not the only religion that has a sort of difference between who runs – men and women, who actually runs the services. Imam Taha, let me ask you, at your Islamic Center of San Diego, is it also a welcoming center the way Anita was just describing it? Welcome to people to just stop by and find out what's going on?

IMAM TAHA: Yes, at the Islamic Center of San Diego, we have every Sunday a class from twelve to one, introduction to Islam class, and we receive a lot of non-Muslims, mainly students from different campuses, especially those who take world religion class, they come and they ask questions and they, you know, get as much information about Islam. Also, we do receive groups coming from schools. When they study about the religion of Islam, they come and they – we do give them presentation over there and they ask their questions and also they interact with the students that we have in the center. We have a full time Islamic school from K-to-8. So whenever we have students coming from middle school, high school and also elementary school, so we do have this kind of interaction. Also we have, I would say, almost every single Friday we have a few non-Muslims who come just to attend the Friday prayer. They want to see what Muslims talk about in their sermons. They want to see how Muslims pray. They want to interact with Muslims. They want to do their own research about Islam. They refuse to be the victims of some of the media outlet, you know, that are hammering our fellow citizens on a daily basis. So they want to discover by themselves what Islam is all about and who are the Muslims. And, of course, we welcome everybody over there. We take them to the right place where they can sit to listen to the sermon, and always we tell them if you have any question after the prayer, you can see us in the office.

CAVANAUGH: Let's take a break. Let's take a short break. There are a lot of people who want to join our conversation. Let's start taking calls when we return. You're listening to These Days and we're talking about the Muslim community in San Diego. Our number is 1-888-895-5727. I will return with my guests in just a few moments here on KPBS.

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CAVANAUGH: I'm Maureen Cavanaugh. You're listening to These Days on KPBS. We're continuing our discussion with members of the Muslim community in San Diego. We're entering the most sacred days of the holy month of Ramadan and, of course, approaching another anniversary of the 9/11 attacks, and we're assessing what it is to be Muslim in San Diego. We're welcoming your calls at 1-888-895-5727. I'd like to welcome back my guests, Ghada Osman, Imam Taha Hassane and Anita Tallman. And let's go to the phones and take some calls. Derek is calling us from Oceanside. Good morning, Derek, and welcome to These Days.

DEREK (Caller, Oceanside): Yes, hi. Great show. Yeah, I just wanted to state my support for the Muslim community in San Diego and the rest of the country, and all other religious groups for that matter. I think that religion is a good guideline for people in society. I'm actually an atheist myself but as I became an adult, I found that the use of religion seems to be – I mean, a religion is a good guideline for people in society. There's an interesting article that came out in the Economist about a year ago called "The Science of Religion" and they found that – the scientists that study religion found that the reason it's so universal throughout the world in history is that it's actually good for society. And they did a case study on communes and they found that communes that were religious-based lasted about four times as long as secular communes. So just – religion's just a great thing for society and I'm glad that the Muslim community is prospering and Christians and Jews and all the other groups.

CAVANAUGH: Well, amen to that. Thank you, Derek. Let's take another call. Tessine (sp) is calling in La Jolla. And good morning, Tessine, welcome to These Days.

TESSINE (Caller, La Jolla): Good morning, Maureen. And As-Salaam-Alaikum to your guests.

ALL: (in reply) Alaikum salaam.

TESSINE: I was born and raised in Southern California and I've lived over 30 years here in San Diego and I have had pretty much no problem being a Muslim and being an American here in San Diego. I've found that the community is very accepting of Muslims, and many people are very curious to learn more about Islam. In fact, right after 9/11, many people even came to the mosque to ask questions about Islam and even sent gifts and flowers saying, you know, we know that this is not from your religion, you know, this is a misuse of religion. But what I did want to say is I have had a couple of incidences in the past where people have said to me, go home. And the reason they've said that is that I wear the traditional Muslim covering of covering my hair and I – I've, you know, I've had a couple of people yell out of moving cars, go home. And I wish I had the chance to respond to them to say, where? L.A.? That's where I was born. And, in addition, in talking to my high school son, I've learned that in the high schools there are many students who harbor many prejudices about Islam and will often call a Muslim 'terrorist' or, you know, something negative like that. And it's not all students, obviously, but there are a few out there. And I think something needs to be done to educate those students and say, look, this is what Islam is all about, these are what Muslims are. There are one and a half billion Muslims in the world. If all of them believed in violence and terrorism, what kind of a world would this be? The word 'islam' means peace through submission to God. And the overwhelming majority of Muslims are peaceful; it's just a few, a potent maj – a potent, sorry, a potent minority, I think, as President Obama said recently, that have – that commit acts of terrorism. So…

CAVANAUGH: Tessine, you've given us so much to talk about. I appreciate your phone call and thank you for sharing your experiences with us. You know, it makes me think, Ghada, from what Tessine is saying, has there been a change in the way that the local Muslim community has perceived itself from before 9/11 to now? I mean, were – was it more that you thought of yourself as really a part of San Diego and now there's this dual thing going on?

OSMAN: Yes, I think 9/11 really made the Muslim community see itself as a community that has suffered the results of a particular set of events which means that it felt a little bit under the microscope if nothing else. I think before 9/11 most Muslims in San Diego and in the United States in general felt that they were a part of society like anybody else. They went to work, their kids went to school, that sort of thing. 9/11 put the spotlight on the Muslim community in a way that it had not been put before. Granted, there were previous political incidents such as 1993 or going back to the 1970s even, the Iranian revolution in 1979. But those were all fleeting associations whereas 9/11 has been an association that has been connected to the Muslim community since then. Here we are eight years later having a show about it, that it's clear this is something that has been associated with the Muslim community and it'll be a long time, I think, before anything shifts. And what this has done is it's made the Muslim community realize how much it needs to reach out to others in order to educate them about Islam and open its doors, which it used to do before but now this has become imperative post-9/11.

CAVANAUGH: I want to get both your, Anita and Imam Taha, your perceptions on this as well. Do you feel because of 9/11 and because of the prejudice and the misperceptions and all of the things that have been said since then, that as a Muslim American, you perhaps have more of a dual identity than other ethnic groups?

IMAM TAHA: I would say that what happened in 9/11th was basically a wake-up call for everybody. Politicians look at it from their own perspective. Myself, as an Imam, look at it from my own perspective. I look at what happened in 9/11th as a wake-up for us, a wake-up call for us as Muslim community because in addition to what Prophet Yahya said, the Muslim community after 9/11th failed to reach out to the larger society. We didn't do a good job. We were living inside our bubble, inside our comfort zone, and we thought that everything is okay outside. Everybody knows us. And right after 9/11th we realized that we are still a community here that most of our fellow citizens don't know us. They don't know who we are. They see us in the streets but they have no idea about our faith and belief and practices and so on. So because of this lack of reaching out that happened before 9/11th, I think, from my own perspective and experience, I've seen a lot of sincere continuous efforts done by Muslim leaders all over the country in terms of educating the larger society, in term – and also reaching out to other faith communities to let them know what Islam is all about and who we are. Islam is a religion of peace. You know, you don't have to be scared about Islam or Muslims. Muslims are here to contribute positively to the betterment of our society as every other community is doing. So this is how I look at 9/11th or what happened after 9/11th.

CAVANAUGH: And, Anita, do you feel that you have to sort of outreach all the time, explain all the time to people who aren't Muslim?

TALLMAN: You do, and I do feel that. And I'm used to that growing up here. I'm first generation, my family's from Pakistan. So I was born and raised in Ohio and there weren't a lot of Muslim families there. In fact, I think it was us and one other family. So there's times where you're in high school and you are fasting and you're always explaining yourself, and that's just part of growing up in a society where you're not the majority. But I think one thing I'd like to add to what Ghada said that hit it right on, 9/11 was a very difficult time and obviously we're all still, you know, experiencing the aftermath of it. But one thing that 9/11 did to the Muslim community is it was an opportunity and it is an opportunity. Like Imam Taha said, since 9/11 I'm not sure if the existence of having continual open houses, having the doors and basically having more outreach programs that tons of centers did throughout the U.S. was maybe non-existent. When I used to go to the mosque growing up, you would go, you'd go to Sunday school, you'd go to Islamic school and you'd leave. I never saw a non-Muslim walk in the door because why would they? So the spotlight that we have on us, what happened after 9/11, it's – there's a lot of positive things that came from it and I think that it's been good, you know, the wake-up call that we needed. It's made me, even having kids in school, I outreach to the teachers, become more involved with what's going on in school, you know, what they see and said. I'm sure, as my kids get into high school, you know, I may be move involved with what are they saying about Islam? How are the kids being taught about Islam? So definitely outreach, and being more involved in even schools and what's going on with your kids is definitely going to be something that's going to be a positive thing.

CAVANAUGH: You know, I want to ask you, I want to throw out a common criticism that I know you've all heard and get your take on it, especially you, Imam, that after the 9/11 attacks there was not enough condemnation within the Muslim community, either in this country or overseas, against the attacks. And I want to – because I've heard that, you know, it pops up even today. And I'd like you to address that, if you would, about how the larger Muslim community reacted to those attacks on America.

IMAM TAHA: You are right. It's the most common comment that I'll see whenever I give presentation. I would say that here, as Muslim-Americans, we have our own organizations, nationwide organizations, working in different fields and some of them in the civil right and civil liberties and so on. And from since day one, our leaders here, the Muslim leaders of – in the United States, they stood up against what happened, and they condemned in very clear words and statements. If people would like to see what was said, it's still in their websites, you know, since day one. The problem is that our leaders here, Muslim leaders in the United States, they could not voice their opinion more than they did. I mean, they have a website, they have congregations, they have small groups of non-Muslims coming to their organizations or community centers or Islamic centers. We don't have a radio station, you know, to express ourselves. We don't have a TV station to express ourselves. That's why a lot of – among our American fellow citizens could not hear our voices and we are trying our best. We are trying our best, and there are a lot of Muslim leaders who worked and they are still working very hard to make it very clear that the Muslim community in the United States is a peaceful community and is contributing to the betterment of the society and condemn every act of violence that was committed, unfortunately, in the name of our faith.

CAVANAUGH: And I think we can hear the frustration in our voice, Imam. And Ghada, I wonder, is it upsetting to you that this criticism persists and it just doesn't die down?

OSMAN: It is frustrating because like the Imam mentioned, there are so many sources where people can look and see these condemnations. I think what's also frustrating is there's a little bit of a skew in terms of the view of representation. If something happens, let's say, a shooting at an abortion clinic or, for example, the high school shooting such as, well, several ones, and the Virginia Tech shooting I'm thinking of in particular, where the assassin quoted Biblical verses, etcetera, your average American Christian does not think that he or she needs to come out and explicitly condemn that. It's a given that this is somebody who's an outlier. But when it comes to the Muslim community, there's always this expectation for people to immediately come out and condemn things and similarly to your average Christian in that context, the average Muslim clearly sees this person as an outlier and feels that the condemnation is a given.

CAVANAUGH: I understand.

OSMAN: And yet there is always this idea that people need to, with every single event that happens, immediately they need to come out and condemn it.

CAVANAUGH: We are taking your calls at 1-888-895-5727, and let's take a call right now. Muhammed is calling in San Diego. And good morning, Muhammed, and welcome to These Days.

MUHAMMED (Caller, San Diego): Good morning.

CAVANAUGH: Yes, how can we help you?

MUHAMMED: Yeah, I have a comment and I was listening to the show. And I would like to give my comment.

CAVANAUGH: Yes, now is the time to do that, Muhammed.

MUHAMMED: Oh, okay, I have heard the subject. It's the month of Ramadan and the community in San Diego and all of the United States, I guess.

CAVANAUGH: Yes.

MUHAMMED: I think the Ramadan is the month that more fights are going on in Somalia every day. I don't think it is a good way to say Ramadan is a good month for the, you know, Muslim society because most of the countries it's – Muslim live, there's a lot of fight going on and I don't see any comments or anybody who is talking about it or condemning it. I don't see them in that area.

CAVANAUGH: Okay, well let's see – I think that I understand the gist of what Muhammed was saying and that is what we did talk about just a little bit earlier and that is the fact that when we in America hear about the holy month of Ramadan, we hear about it in context to fighting going on in the world. Imam, would you like to comment?

IMAM TAHA: Yeah, as Muhammed said, unfortunately, in some places in the Muslim world there are a lot of military conflicts going on and he mentioned one of them, one of the brutal ones in Somalia. I would say that the misunderstanding of our faith and the religion is not only the problem of non-Muslims, it's also the problem of many Muslims who misunderstood their own faith and misusing the codes from the Qur'an, the word of God revealed to prophet Muhammed, peace be upon him. And even misusing the sayings of the prophet, peace be upon him, to justify what they are doing. What some Muslims are doing all over the world do not represent authentically what Islam is asking us to do so I share the same opinion with Muhammed and I hope that this Ramadan could inspire all Muslims all over the world, you know, to observe the real fasting and to observe and to abide to the teachings of their own faith.

CAVANAUGH: We have to take another short break. It's going to be really short. We're going to come back and take your calls and continue talking about the Muslim community in San Diego. You're listening to These Days on KPBS.

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CAVANAUGH: You're listening to These Days on KPBS. I'm Maureen Cavanaugh. My guests are Anita Tallman, volunteer at the Muslim Community Center of Greater San Diego, Imam Taha Hassane, imam and director of the Islamic Center of San Diego, and Ghada Osman is director of the Center for Islamic and Arabic Studies at SDSU. And we are taking your calls at 1-888-895-5727. And right now let's take a call from Robert in Solana Beach. Good morning, Robert. Welcome to These Days.

ROBERT (Caller, Solana Beach): Thank you. Good morning and as-salaam-alaikum.

ALL: (responding) Alaikum-salaam.

CAVANAUGH: And none of their microphones were on but you want to answer him again?

ALL: (responding) Alaikum-salaam.

CAVANAUGH: Okay, Robert, thank you.

ROBERT: Okay, I called and I'm an American Jew and I'm also the son of Holocaust survivors. And around the time of 9/11 I had a Muslim friend and he and his family were feeling a lot of persecution and for the first time it occurred to me that the Muslim and perhaps the entire Arab community became the new Jews in America, the persecuted ones. And I think that the Muslim community is missing an opportunity to bridge the gap between themselves and the others, as you put it, by not just talking about the horrif – the historical perspective of Islam within the context of the Jewish and Christian – Judeo-Christian, if you will, religious experience. When you talk about anti-Semitism, you're talking about a discrimination against Semitic people. Well, Arabs and Jews are both Semitic people. We have the same patriarch, Abraham. And a lot of people don’t realize, excuse me, that the teachings of all the prophets of the Old Testament as well as Jesus are considered holy prophets in Islam and they are revered. And in much the same way that Christianity is a offshoot of Judaism in as much as the Apostles and Jesus Himself was a practicing Jew until the Council of Antioch when there was a clear split between the two religions or the two factions. And you have various factions in Christianity that split off from the original Roman church.

CAVANAUGH: Well, Robert, I think that – Thank you. That's a very good perspective because I think it's been said and I heard the term for quite some time that the Jews and Christians and Muslims are people of the book, they all sort of trace their religious ancestry back to Abraham. And the Bible and the New Testament and the Koran have links that talk about the same people, the same holy people. And one of the things that Robert said, though, that I think is a misperception is, of course, Muslims are not all Arab. And can you tell us a little bit more about that, Ghada.

OSMAN: Right, so this is often something that happens, that people equate Muslims with Arabs but, in fact, Muslims, only 20% of Muslims are Arab. And often when I teach in class, I point out to students that if I were to draw a line that's east of Afghanistan, then 60% of Muslims in the world would all lie east of that line, in other words, looking at a map, to the right of that line. And only 40% would lie west of that or to the left of that line. So the country with the largest Muslim population is Indonesia, for example, followed closely by India and Pakistan. And so this is something that's often equated but this is not the case, similarly just as 20% of Muslims are Arab, there are many Arabs who are not Muslim. So many Christian-Arabs, many Arabs that are of Jewish background, other religious minorities within the Arab community, so these are not two terms that are interchangeable. If I could also add to Robert's point about the parallels between the Muslim community and the Jewish community, this is a parallel that has been made, that the Muslim community today is somewhat similar to, in circumstance, to the Jewish community in the early part of the 20th century. And among scholars actually this is something that's said, that in some ways Muslims are the new Jews in the United States in terms of the circumstances within the society.

CAVANAUGH: Let's take another call. Sam is calling from San Diego. Good morning, Sam, and welcome to These Days. Sam, hello, are you there? Okay, Seamus is calling from San Diego. Good morning, Seamus. Welcome to These Days. We'll try it a little bit later because I think – I would really like to move on just to another question because we are getting out of – running out of time and I really do want to get to it. I think – When we think back on the call that we got from Tessine about her wearing the hijab and people calling out to her from cars, go home, go home, I think that it's hard for Americans to understand the role of women in Muslim culture and the wearing of the scarf. And I'm wondering, if – do Muslim women in America see their roles differently than other American women? I'm going to ask you both. Let me start out with Ghada.

OSMAN: I don't think that Muslim women in the United States see their role as different – differently from other American women. I think there are variations within the Muslim community like there are variations within the society as a whole. So you may have some women who are more comfortable being – working at home versus women that are working outside the home. But I think if we were to look at the community as a whole, the individual differences within it are similar to individual differences within the society. I think for Muslim women in the United States, they perceive their role as women in an American context, through an American lens, I think, much more than others give them credit for. Most people look at the headscarf and see the headscarf as symbolic of certain ideas that honestly are mainly stereotypes.

CAVANAUGH: And I want to make it clear to our listeners that neither Anita nor Ghada here in the studio is wearing a headscarf. And I wonder, Anita, what does that decision say, to decide not to or to wear the headscarf? Is there a controversy among Muslim women about this?

TALLMAN: Well, I think Muslim women have that decision that they make and is there a controversy within there? I don't think so. Only because knowing Muslim women that wear hijab, the head covering, knowing and being close to women that do not, when we look at each other, I think the first thing we look at is the fact that we're both Muslim women and there's that bond that's already there and something that really goes higher and more important than whether or not you wear a headscarf, whether you wear a hijab, why don't you wear it, you should, you should not. So, no, I don't think there's a controversy. I think that a lot of women that wear or do not wear hijab do have a strong opinion about their decision but I think, again, being a Muslim in the U.S., being a minority, I think a lot of those women want to kind of see past that and think, you know what, at the end of the day, we're all Muslim and it's better if we unite by our similarities, unite by our faith per se, than to focus on the differences of what decisions you make living in the U.S.

CAVANAUGH: But it obviously does leave you open to people who want to express some sort of prejudice against Muslims, and I'm wondering is it therefore also a political statement?

OSMAN: Actually, for some women it is. I know women who started wearing the scarf after 9/11, that they basically felt that Muslims are being verbally attacked at times. I've had students, for example, who started wearing the scarf because they said we hear students in class commenting on Muslims and they don't realize I'm a Muslim and I want to make it clear that I am. And so, yes, there are. For some Muslim women, wearing the scarf was a clear symbol and a clear statement of who they are. For other Muslim women, however, and I would say actually for the majority of Muslim women, this is not the case. This would not be the primary reason why they wear it.

CAVANAUGH: Let's go to the phones again, see if we can talk to a caller. Aron – Aaron, I'm sorry, is calling in San Diego. Good morning, Aaron, and welcome to These Days.

AARON (Caller, San Diego): Good morning. Am I on air?

CAVANAUGH: Yes, you are.

AARON: Thank you. I respect the other prayers. People saying the words. Mostly I believe in action. I want to see the action of the Islamic, the words. There are many Baha'is in Iran that have no rights and actually at this very moment there's seven Baha'is in prison, five of them are women, that are being executed. I believe in more often action and prayers, personally. I'm a very logical person. What is the act of the Islamic people on your word to provide freedom for the Baha'i in Iran and so they can have a Baha'i center and they can practice the faith that they believe in? We have an Islamic center in America, of course, why not have a Baha'i center in Iran so they can practice their religion and have freedom.

CAVANAUGH: I understand that. Thank you for that call, Aaron. And, Imam, you know, I'd like you to address the issue but I'd also like you to address the idea that – are Muslims in the United States seemingly held accountable for the actions of other nations?

IMAM TAHA: This is a problem, actually. We are not accountable for whatever is happening somewhere else in the world. And this question of this listener should be addressed to the politicians of that country to make the decision. Islam in itself respects all faiths and other religions. As a matter of fact, Islam urge us to get involved in sincere and serious interfaith dialogue with the representatives of different faiths, especially mainly the monotheistic or the three – the two other divine religions, Christianity and Judaism as we – as you have mentioned, Maureen, before that in the Qur'an they are called by Almighty God the people of the book or the people of the scripture in Arabic. I look it up. So we are accountable for our community here, what is going on here. But what's happening over there doesn't – I mean, it concerns me as a Muslim. I wish if everything is done according to the Fontic teachings of Islam but sometimes it's beyond my ability to do here.

CAVANAUGH: Because I hear that a lot. I hear that, you know, people – some Islamic countries don't allow other religions and they persecute people of other faiths but it also seems that Christian nations around the world do various things in their various nations and yet Christians in the United States are not asked to explain that. Did you find that…

OSMAN: Yes.

CAVANAUGH: …to be the case?

OSMAN: Yes, I think that's very often the case. I think Muslims are often held accountable for what any Muslim in the world can do and there are 1.2 billion Muslims in the world. It's very difficult to hold an empaha (sp) and an Imam responsible for the acts of 1.2 billion Muslims. Also, in terms of authority, people will often say, well, why doesn't the Muslim community in the U.S. do this? The Muslim community in the U.S. are individuals with their religious leaders but it's very difficult for an individual to then go and have an affect on a country or on a political leader of a country.

CAVANAUGH: Let's take a final call. Edgar is calling from San Diego. Good morning, Edgar, and welcome to These Days.

EDGAR (Caller, San Diego): Hi. Good morning. Thank you for having me on and as-salaam-alaikum to all the guests there.

ALL: (responding) Alaikum-salaam.

EDGAR: I'm the local director of the Council of American Islamic Relations, which is the largest American-Muslim civil rights and advocacy organization in the United States. And it's a excellent, excellent dialogue that's happening today on this show. I just wanted to point out some of the things that, negative things that have been happening in San Diego and the United States. I'm sure you heard about the incident with the Navy Federal Credit Union and a Muslim woman being denied service because of her headscarf. So, these are some of the – We actually catalog anti-Muslim incidents and civil rights abuses on American-Muslims across the country. And, unfortunately, California is 21% of all those anti-Muslim incidents. And so we have still a big challenge to go about trying to educate people about Islam and Muslims. But we also have positive things like our Explore the Koran project which is in its second phase which we're trying to promote these to – the holy book to politicians and whatnot. So we have a lot of challenges ahead of us and a lot of them have to do with passenger profiling. We still get those problems.

IMAM TAHA: Yes, umm-hmm.

EDGAR: We still get problems with anti-Muslim incidents. And it – it's a big challenge and I thank you for allowing our various local Muslim leaders to address those issues.

CAVANAUGH: Well, Edgar, let me ask you one question before I let you go. Since you're cataloging these incidents, are they going down? Are the numbers going down?

EDGAR: Certain categories are going down but, unfortunately, a lot of the profiling still happens, the restriction on services. Nationally, some Muslim women were denied access to a swimming pool because of their headdress. So certain categories have been going down but, unfortunately, we also have fringe groups, far right fringe groups that are promoting that hate and intolerance toward Muslims and that's kind of confusing the wider American populous about what Islam is and so that's what my organization is bent on doing, is to combat, you know, these negative perceptions about Islam and to help some of our local Muslim leaders like Imam Taha and Professor – and everyone else in trying to educate Muslims – or, educate non-Muslims about our faith.

CAVANAUGH: Thank you so much, Edgar.

EDGAR: You're welcome.

CAVANAUGH: Thank you for calling in. In the 45 seconds we have remaining, Imam, I wonder if you – is there anything that pops to mind about what can be done to reach out to people who still have negative attitudes towards Muslims in San Diego?

IMAM TAHA: Thank you. I would like to go back to what Robert said. I really appreciate your sympathy with the Muslim family and actually you reminded me about something very important which is, you know, to get involved in a very deep, serious, continuous educational process, you know, between the Muslim community and other faith communities or even non-faith communities. The solution of all the problems that our Muslim community is facing is education. People have to be educated and we, as Muslims, also have to be educated so we have to get involved in such thing in order to eliminate or at least to minimize all these misconceptions and stereotypes.

CAVANAUGH: Thank you so much.

IMAM TAHA: Sure.

CAVANAUGH: We – we're out of time. I want to let everyone know, who didn't get a chance to call in, they can post their comments at KPBS.org/TheseDays. I want to thank my guests Ghada Osman, Imam Taha Hassane and Anita Tallman. Thank you all so much for coming in and speaking with us today.

OSMAN: Thank you.

IMAM TAHA: Thank you.

TALLMAN: Thank you.

CAVANAUGH: Stay with us for the second hour of These Days coming up in just a few minutes here on KPBS.

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randolphslinky | September 10, 2009 at 9:58 a.m. ― 4 years, 7 months ago

Here is what one needs to know about the Koran - beneath the rosy assurances from Muslim apologists that Islam is about peace and tolerance the reality is the exact opposite. The caller who claimed to be an atheist and then said that religion was a good thing for society was obviously not an atheist. The Koran teaches hate and is full of hate speech and most certainly is oppressive, especially to women.
The Qur'an incessantly preaches the inferiority of non-Muslims, even comparing them to vile animals and gloating over Allah's hatred of them and his dark plans for their eternal torture. Given this, how is it that the Koran and those who follow such beliefs, compatible with western ideals?

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salaam | September 10, 2009 at 10:35 a.m. ― 4 years, 7 months ago

I enjoyed listening to this show. Dr. Ghada Osman and Imam Taha Hassane did an especially exceptional job at discussing what Islam is really all about. Thanks to KPBS for providing an outlet for education and an opportunity to disseminate stereotypes about the world's second largest religion. My only hope is to see more productive discussions such as this arise in the near future, and not only in the wake of the 9/11 anniversary.

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yermama | September 10, 2009 at 11:36 a.m. ― 4 years, 7 months ago

On 9/11, I was worried about my sister living in NYC, but when the evening news aired stories of Muslim hate-crimes here in San Diego I became concerned for the safety of Muslims in my community - conservative, old fashioned Poway.

I live near the Muslim center on Poway road, so I wrote a note of support, picked some white roses from my garden and drove over to the to drop them off, but when I pulled up in front of the center I saw that many other people had left notes, cards and flowers. It was beautiful, but humbling. The same things that may have motivated the hate crimes: false assumptions, ignorance, stereotyping, had motivated my act of kindness. Communities are NOT groups of like-minded individuals, they are groups of individuals, and each person represents only themselves.

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saraha | September 10, 2009 at 1:32 p.m. ― 4 years, 7 months ago

Thank you KPBS for a thought provoking and balanced program about Islam and the local Muslim community.

As evident by some of the comments above, serious misconceptions exist in people's minds about Islam, the world's second largest (and fastest growing) faith.

As to references about the Qur'an, I would like to point out that quoting verses from an ancient religious text completely out of their historical context, only breeds misunderstanding, fear and hate. Regarding the rights of women, Islam gave women rights to own property, participate in community affairs, rights of inheritance and rights of divorce over 1400 years ago, concepts revolutionary for the time.

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ishni | September 10, 2009 at 4:50 p.m. ― 4 years, 7 months ago

I would like to applaud kpbs and These Days for the effort. However a noticeable error on shows of this kind continues to be an over representation of non-practicing Muslims and an under representation of practicing Muslims and there is a big difference between the two. For example today’s show, in a community of about 80,000 Muslims you have not one but two non-practicing Muslims women to discuss an issue of such importance.
This is part of the problem not part of the solution. When we hear about Muslim women being oppressed and discriminated against in Islam, the very shows echoing these falsehoods are in fact oppressing and discriminating against practicing Muslim women themselves by selecting non-practicing women over practicing. It’s also disrespectful and a disservice to have these two women attempt to tell us what life has been like as Muslims since 9/11, when most of the time most people don’t even know that they’re Muslims. Both women struggled with the question about their decision not to cover their hair for the obvious reason that they really don’t believe in the religion, I hope some day they will. So I humbly ask that this show and shows like this please spare us the college professors and wannabe’s trying to tell us what it’s like to do something that they themselves can’t even do. The caller Tasheen would have been a more qualified guest for this show as she is obviously practicing and probably would have made the show more meaningful. No disrespect intended.

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randolphslinky | September 10, 2009 at 8:41 p.m. ― 4 years, 7 months ago

There is absolutely no misunderstanding on my part about Islam. Having been to several Muslim countries as a member of the armed forces I can tell you most assuradly that if America were ever under the religious control of Islam our country would be a miserable and dismal place to live, unless of course, you're a Muslim. Then it would be great. The things I could say here, but of course it might offend the sensiblities of our very intelligent and fair minded members of KPBS. I simply ask that you think, read the book (Koran), and if you're not disturbed by what you find there, then I guess we're from different planets socially.

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nkhan | September 10, 2009 at 11:20 p.m. ― 4 years, 7 months ago

Thank you Kpbs for doing a program about Islam and the local muslim community.I hope we see more of such shows in the future.

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sk92131 | September 10, 2009 at 11:37 p.m. ― 4 years, 7 months ago

Asalam Alekum (May Peace Be Upon You).

Dear KPBS,

Thank you for today's show about Islam and Muslims in San Diego. I appreciate the opportunity to hear Muslims talking about themselves to clarify misconceptions and stereotypes about them. I enjoyed listening to the show and the questions from callers were very interesting. Thank you again kpbs. Keep up the good work.

May Allah guide us all to understand each other, respect each other, not judge each other, and tolerate each other (Ameen).

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hotfever25 | September 11, 2009 at 5:45 a.m. ― 4 years, 7 months ago

Thank you KPBS for hosting such a wonderful dialog. It is only through dialog that we can understand each other in our country. It is easy to stereotype any group but through shows and efforts like this we can truely know the people.

The speakers were great.

Looking forward for more - thanks again.

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rtaqui | September 11, 2009 at 10:05 a.m. ― 4 years, 7 months ago

I would like to thank KPBS for hosting this dialogue and giving the opportunity to local Muslims to give an overview of our community practices in San Diego.

I hope shows like these would continue to give Muslims a base for educating and addressing the misconceptions that revolves around Islam and the Muslims.

Irrespective of the religious background the foundation of all faiths is to promote peace and harmony amongst each other and Quran's teachings are no different.

As far as women and Islam is concerned , the impression that Muslim women are oppressed and subjugated is baseless. The comment posted about Hijab and it's relationship to practicing, non practicing and Wannabe's is very disturbing.. Islam teaches you to be non-judgmental and tolerant. Wearing Hijab is very personal and the call has to come from within.

Again Thanks KPBS!

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fpasha | September 11, 2009 at 10:29 a.m. ― 4 years, 7 months ago

Great show!
Regarding Ishn's comment about the women on the show being non-practicing Muslims is baseless. Nowhere in the Quran does it state that Muslim women have to cover their hair..the verse refers specifically to modesty and covering the chest area. Everyone should refrain from passing judgement on others based on their own ideas of what the religion demands and It is indeed very insulting to call someone a non-believer.

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Xander | September 11, 2009 at 12:43 p.m. ― 4 years, 7 months ago

Thank your KPBS for hosting the dialogue on These Days.
I personally don’t believe in one religion but feel that believing in some thing can help us feel connected to one another. I feel that hearing discussions like this help me think outside of the box I grew up in. Being a Hispanic 20year old male with little education I feel that hearing dialogue concerning such issues help me connect with other around me in my community. I hope that you keep hosting dialogue concerning these issues to hopefully assist in making people more supportive of others in there community no matter what race, nationality or religion we belong to.

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ishni | September 12, 2009 at 12:26 a.m. ― 4 years, 7 months ago

Regarding fpasha’s comment, mostly every non-practicing Muslims says that, so that makes your comments baseless. If non-practicing Muslims are blessed to become practicing Muslims then it suddenly appears? No, it was always there it’s just that with practicing we leave a life of denial and lies and enter into a life of truth and understanding. You see when people don’t want to do something they know they should, they start playing with the words and interpretations. The Christians do this as well, ask the Christians you meet if women should cover their hair is in the Bible, most will say no, probably after looking at you like you crazy for asking such a question. But it’s in there, no matter how many times they say its not. So you’re not alone.

Furthermore there’s a person leaving comments on this site using the name of randolphslinky, who is blatantly attacking the Quran and the beautiful religion of Islam, but interestingly you say nothing to randolphslinky, you single me out. Practicing Muslims know that it is an obligation upon each of us to defend the Quran and any distortions of its teachings so if you don’t understand that the chances of you understanding the parts about the hijab and modesty are equally as slim.

Listen, I’m aware of the fact that there is a big push out there to try to make Islam conform to today’s women but don’t get it twisted, it is today’s women and men who have to conform to Islam. Unfortunately sites like this give way to people distorting the truth, but they will fail just like the previous generations who tried, because Allah (God) has said he will protect the Quran himself, so his last and final revelation cannot and will not be changed by you, me or anybody else.
Now, I didn’t single anybody out who left comments on this site until I was singled out, but to be courteous to others I invite you and anybody else who would like to discuss, not argue this issue further to exchange emails or even phone numbers with me because I don’t wish to go back and forth with anyone on this site as I don’t think this is the appropriate forum and this was not the aim of this site. As a practicing Muslim when I see a wrong I’m to try an change it, and that’s what I was trying to do with my original post. So singling me out for doing what I’m supposed to do, well, is a bit suspect and saying that my comment was baseless, that’s your opinion and Allah has surely made clear his position on opinions as well in the Quran.

No disrespect intended. Please pray for understanding, and I ask Allah (God) to forgive you and me for our own weaknesses and errors. Ameen

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ishni | September 12, 2009 at 12:40 a.m. ― 4 years, 7 months ago

Now randolphslinky, lighten up on the hate B, sounds like you need some love, a hug or something.

I think I can help you out here just a few typos nothing we can’t fix, lets see we’ll start with your first post.
Here is what one needs to know about the Quran, beneath the rosy assurances from Muslims, the reality is that Islam is about peace and tolerance. Okay the one about the atheist, well, I’ll let you two decide who’s the better atheist, so lets move on. The Quran is most certainly not full of hate or hate speech and teaches that it is not oppressive, especially to women. Allah preaches in the Quran his plans for Muslims, sinners and animals. That torture part I think you meant to put in the second post with the Armed Forces part I remember reading and hearing something about that in the news recently. Anyway. Given this, western ideals, the Quran and those who follow such beliefs is compatible with Islam.

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ishni | September 12, 2009 at 12:40 a.m. ― 4 years, 7 months ago

Now on to the second post,
There is absolutely a misunderstanding on my part about Islam, as you can see I did get some help. Having been to several Muslims countries I can tell you that as a member of the armed forces and occupying somebody’s country and torturing them, makes it a miserable and dismal place. I can tell you most assuredly that if America were ever under the religious control of Islam it would be a better place to live. Then it would be great. The things I said here before, of course it offended the sensibilities of our very intelligent and fair minded members at kpbs and These Days. I simply ask that you think, read the book (Quran), and if you don’t understand it, don’t make up lies about it, then I guess it won’t make you look like you’re from a different planet socially like I did.

Randolphslinky, if you read the Quran and understood it, I think this is what you were trying to say.

No need to thank me, I heard your cry for help, People like you revert to Islam everyday of the week 365 days a year B, so don’t play yoself.

So I’m pleading with you to accept my invitation and exchange emails or even phone numbers with me if you would like to have a heart to heart dialog because obviously you have some concerns that no one else on this site were willing to address. I’m reaching out to you and that’s what practicing Muslims do. Again I’m pleading with you to cease this kind of talk and attack on the Quran and Islam on this site and any other site that we may not be aware of because it doesn’t reflect good on you or the good efforts of kpbs, These Days or this website.
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javedb | September 13, 2009 at 11:41 p.m. ― 4 years, 7 months ago

Thanks KPBS.

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AListener | September 16, 2009 at 4:13 p.m. ― 4 years, 7 months ago

I listened to this interesting program and found it informative. I was especially interested to hear that the mosques are open to non-Muslims because I had always thought it was otherwise. But, today, I was listening to a feature on PBS about plans to build some large buildings near the Grand Mosque in Mecca and was surprised to hear that non-Muslims are not allowed in Mecca. I checked this on the internet and it is true. I have to wonder why, after all the discussion of openess that this subject was not raised about the holiest of site of the religion? I am not religious yet I am amazed at the closed nature of some religions that profess to be open but really are not. The Mormons are another such group, a religion that builds huge temples but does not allow anyone but Mormons inside and, even then, only Mormons of a certain stature. These things make no sense to me.

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aynur | September 24, 2009 at 1:24 a.m. ― 4 years, 6 months ago

@ishni - I just came across this discussion as I was searching for things within the San Diego Muslim community.
It's sad that everything has to boil down the hijab issue.

I'm wondering though, why I cannot find anywhere the words "head" and "hair" specifically mentioned to be covered in the Qur'an? (I'm truly trying to understand). I can see the assumption that since it says "draw your khimaars over your bosoms" that you'll have to use the coverings to cover your hair. But it's not spelled out in black and white, to me. I can also assume that hair can be an attraction.

http://www.irfi.org/articles/articles_201_250/splitting_hair_to_cover_hair_the.htm

I'd like to point out that the part about Christians covering their hair in the Bible is written by Paul, not Jesus (pbuh).

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ishni | September 29, 2009 at 10:48 a.m. ― 4 years, 6 months ago

@aynur, sorry for the delay, but I don’t check here that often. Everything doesn’t have to boil down to the hijab issue. I’ve found that those who are not able to practice the religion, try to justify not wearing hijab by making this an issue and saying that’s it’s not in the Qur’an. The hijab is not an issue for practicing Muslim women, I repeat, the hijab is not an issue for practicing Muslim women, it’s a commandment.

No need to wonder, you’re doing the same thing a lot of people do. You’re looking specifically for words, the way you want to see them, not the way (context) Allah revealed them. Allah revealed the Qur’an specifically how he wanted, not how we wanted. So if you are (“truly trying to understand”) then let’s stop looking for specific words in a specific order and pray to Allah for understanding of the words that are there, because understanding is his alone. And no one can understand the Qur’an or any other book for that matter without his permission. Furthermore Allah was very specific he didn’t have to use the words head or hair in this ayat (verse) because it was already common practice for men and women to cover their hair from previous revelation, so they knew what they were being commanded to do. Many of the women today refuse to practice the way those women did so they’ve taken it off and talking about hijab is not in there. Trust me that’s not all they’ve taken off. “It’s not spelled out in black and white” to you? The Qur’an is not just a book it’s a miracle, it wouldn’t be much of a miracle if everything in it were spelled out in black and white for you would it? We all have to seek the knowledge of the Qur’an. What’s to assume? The amount of time and money women invests in beauty shops and hair care products every year is not to make them look unattractive.

And I’d like to point out that nothing in the Bible was written by Issa (Jesus) (pbuh). So what’s your point?

No disrespect intended

Can’t we take this conversation elsewhere? Again I really don’t think this was the intent of kpbs and These Days.

May Allah forgive us

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aynur | October 2, 2009 at 11:31 p.m. ― 4 years, 6 months ago

@ishni. My issue is (which I should have stated in my earlier post) your referred to the non-hijabi women as "non-practicing". By boiling down the religion to the headscarf alone, that is totally wrong.

"Furthermore Allah was very specific he didn’t have to use the words head or hair in this ayat (verse) because it was already common practice for men and women to cover their hair from previous revelation"

If you're referring to the Torah, that is incorrect. It is not in the Torah. My point by saying that in the Bible was not written by Jesus is quite apparent, Paul was not a prophet.
Yes, it was a common practice - among the Greeks, the Byzantines, the Zoroastrians, and Sasanians - but as a class distinction. The upper-class and "respectable" women covered.
Even in early Islam Muslim slave women were *not* allowed to cover their hair, so they wouldn't be confused with the "free" women.

"Trust me that’s not all they’ve taken off."
Once again, you should not generalize. You can't assume a non-hijabi is wearing revealing clothes. Just because someone doesn't wear hijab means they spend a fortune on shampoo or styling their hair. There are many hijabis that spend a fortune on makeup. Isn't that to look attractive??

The reason I'm replying again is it is annoying that you are associating covering with practicing. Just because someone covers their hair, it doesn't mean they are automatically doing everything like praying, fasting, are honest, etc etc. There are many reasons for covering (such as because they believe it's a commandment, family pressure, etc) - but not everyone covers for the same reasons.

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ishni | October 14, 2009 at 2:46 p.m. ― 4 years, 6 months ago

@aynur. It’s obvious that you have some issues. I started my last post with (Everything doesn’t have to boil down to the hijab issue.) Now you’re writing again “By boiling down the religion to the headscarf alone, that is totally wrong” It’s so wrong, but you keep talking, and talking, and talking about it. This is either a lack of understanding on your part or your refusal to acknowledge what you read.

You’re all over the place here. Guidance is from Allah’s final revelation the Qur’an and Hadiths of the prophet (pbuh) so who said anything about Greek practices? Try to stay focused. In early Islam Muslims *were allowed* to drink alcohol, so what’s your point? Look you’re trying to be selective. The Qur’an was revealed to clear misconceptions of previous revelations and you’re living proof of that.

“There are many hijabis that spend a fortune on makeup. Isn’t that to look attractive??” Yes, and if its for her husband it’s allowed, if its in public then she’s made an error, doesn’t mean she’s not practicing. The issue of covering as a part of practice was settled over 1400 years ago whether you accept it or not.

“The reason I'm replying again is it is annoying that you are associating covering with practicing.” But you didn’t find the post from Randolphslinky annoying enough to write even once, but you’re writing me repeatedly about covering hair? “Just because someone covers their hair, it doesn't mean they are automatically doing everything like praying, fasting, are honest, etc etc.” I never said it did, those are your words.

I also asked respectfully that we take this discussion off this site but you didn’t understand or acknowledge that either, sorry to say, but I have to question your intentions.

No disrespect intended
ishni

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gjetson | November 15, 2009 at 9:02 a.m. ― 4 years, 5 months ago

The 1st comment by randolphslinky sums up an issue for the American Muslim community with was not adequately addressed on this program, and with the recent fort hood shootings, another opportunity has come up to address this issue (hopefully KPBS will invite the muslim community in San Diego back to continue the dialog). Essentially, the argument has been put forward that Islam, unlike its other monotheistic neighbors, is firstly a "religion of the sword". The argument goes on to say that the handful of radicalized muslims that use violence are actually following the precepts of the Quran, whereas the large and vast majority of peaceful and moderate muslims are not following the religion correctly (and I guess will turn into bloodthirsty killers at some point?). To me it is just a masked hate campaign against the muslim community -- if you take the argument to its rational conclusion, the goal is to make muslims the enemy, create divisions in the community, create fear, and make the religion into something that is entirely incompatible with American values. I would encourage those who take this negative viewpoint of Islam to look within and see that the intolerance and hatred that perpetuate violent and reprehensible acts (such as what has happened in Fort Hood), is the same source of motivation that drives those to discredit the Quran and the muslim community; fear and hatred begets more fear and hatred. I applaud the community here in San Diego for combating such misconceptions with peace, compassion and education.

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