COMIC: A couple's therapist says you can break these relationship rules

By Manoush Zomorodi, James Delahoussaye, Fiona Geiran, Sanaz Meshkinpour, LA Johnson, Katie Monteleone

Published December 12, 2025 at 4:00 AM PST

Is it a red flag if a couple has separate beds? What about separate bank accounts? Therapist Stephanie R. Yates-Anyabwile says ignoring relationship norms can actually make a partnership stronger.

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This comic was illustrated by Fio Geiran and edited by LA Johnson and Katie Monteleone.

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Manoush Zomorodi is the host of TED Radio Hour. She is a journalist, podcaster and media entrepreneur, and her work reflects her passion for investigating how technology and business are transforming humanity.

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